How do I stay open to this world, say yes to this world, learn and be a student in this world and in turn teach in this world? How do I find my place here, in a society with endless opportunities, where I am taught to be what ever I want to be? But what do I want to 'be'? The only thing I know is that I want to be me.

I am Silvia Zuur from New Zealand (and proud of it, even though I know I say 'fish and chips' in a unique kind of way), but does that define me? I can tell you I have studied environmental studies and psychology at university, but does that make me different, is that who I am?

Do I begin to tell you about my work, my travels, where I have volunteered? That would put me in a box and I am not one to sit in boxes (though cardboard ones are always good fun). I would like to tell you that I hate wearing socks to bed, that I do like the unsalted Swiss butter, that I am an organised individual and having no plans for next week, month or year is a challenge, but I currently love it and live it.

I will admit I adore The Little Mermaid, that I admire and respect people who are honest. I can tell you that I am trying to turn my criticisms and judgments into reverence, and that I am asking the questions, 'How do we truly listen and not just wait to speak?' and 'What does it mean to help? Who needs help?' Finally I can tell you that I am incredibly competitive when it comes to playing cards (I am sorry, you have been warned)…